The Trebek siblings: Emily Trebek, Matthew Trebek and Nicky Trebek at a recent family gathering in Los Angeles.
The world knows Alex Trebek as the host of Jeopardy!
But to his kids, he’s just Dad
Alex and I are so blessed to have two wonderful children, Matthew and Emily. The older, Matthew, has a true sincerity and gentleness to him while being a natural born athlete. Emily was a very curious child, much like her Dad, and has a beautiful strong sense of self. Matthew and I are more “go with the flow” people, while Emily and Alex suggest how the flow should go 🙂
If that weren’t enough good fortune, we have the added benefit of Nicky being part of our family. Nicky is the daughter of Alex’s first wife, Elaine, whom I have great affection for. Nicky is a couple of years younger than me, and so I have also enjoyed getting to know her and I consider her to be one of my dearest friends. She is full of soulfulness with a dash of rock n’roll…a truly benevolent person.
It feels to me like our little family was meant to be…the stars all were aligned to bring together such unique personalities which deeply support and respect each other. What’s interesting for me to witness, is that they each have had their own unique experiences with Alex and that really reflects back different perspectives on the man I married.
When we’re together I feel such joy. It really pleases me that Matthew, Emily and Nicky have become such great friends and close siblings.
Recently, we were together for a dinner, and in honor of father’s day, I asked them some answer some questions about their Dad…
Alex Trebek’s kids celebrating their Father’s birthday at Saddle Peak Lodge in Malibu (2012)
Alex Trebek’s Kids Share a Gift of Memories with Dad for Father’s Day
What’s your favorite childhood memory?
Emily:
My favorite memory would be all of the times we spent at our Lake House in Paso Robles. My dad would be on the jet ski and would take us for rides in the innertube.
Matthew:
There are many good memories, but I really loved it when my Dad would come to all of my paintball tournaments with me… although it was a very unique sport, he still got very enthusiastic about watching and learning the game.
Nicky:
When he took me on a trip to a wine symposium in Hawaii. I wasn’t a kid, but Vincent Price attended and I got to sit next to him at a dinner. Needless to say it was unforgettable.
Bonus: On that trip he told me he was going to marry Jean and I could see how happy he was!
Name one thing that you will always find on your Father’s desk.
A lot of mail
—Emily Trebek
A rock I gave him that says “I believe in you”
—Nicky Trebek
Statue of the Maltese Falcon
—Matthew Trebek
What do you think your Father is most proud of about you?
Nicky:
It’s always hard when someone asks you something like that about any parent I think. I’d like to think he’s proud of the person I am and how I show up in the world for others.
Emily:
I think my Dad is most proud that I started my own business in the remodeling/construction field, and that it has been (so far) a success.
Matthew:
I think my dad is proud to see me working in an industry that makes me happy…doing what I love.
How are you like your Dad?
Matthew:
We both tend to be discerning when it comes to sharing our feelings and I think we’re both very capable in taking care of most household repairs.
Nicky:
I have a similar passion for organization in my household. Haha. Dad is extremely into cleanliness and organization.
Emily:
My Dad and I are both pretty Type-A individuals…I think I got a lot of my organizational, financial and perfectionistic traits from him. He also has always been into construction so I think that rubbed off on me too.
Do you get tired of people humming the Jeopardy! theme song, when they know your Father is in the room?
Thankfully, nobody really does that.
—Matthew Trebek
I agree with Matt – luckily, not too many people do that!
—Emily Trebek
Tony’s tune? Haha It was originally a lullaby written for Tony Griffin. Well? I work on the show so I hear it all the time, but no, I’m happy to say people don’t often do that.
—Nicky Trebek
What is a gift that your Father has given you that you will always remember?
Emily:
Typically, my mom usually gets the gifts on behalf of the both of them. However, one Christmas my Dad went out on his own and picked a bracelet for me. It was very special and I haven’t taken it off since.
Matthew:
He gave me a cross that he wore when he was a young man, and although
I’m not religious, it meant a lot to me.
Nicky:
There’s a stunning painting from my childhood of God and the Devil/Good and Evil that now lives in my house, But as a child I would look up at it in wonder. One Christmas he put a large bow on it and gave it to me. It’s my favorite piece of art and has deep meaning to me.
What’s your Dad’s favorite power tool?
His brain! Haha
That’s actually a question for my brother.
—Nicky Trebek
Whatever gets the job done.
—Matthew Trebek
Whatever fixes a broken sprinkler.
—Emily Trebek
What is your Dad really good at?
Emily:
He is really good at his job and also fixing things around the house. I always call him if I have an issue around the house and he’ll be over within the hour with the perfect tool!
Matthew:
He’s great at staying focused and fixing sprinklers.
Nicky:
He’s really good at his profession. The best in the business. People don’t really understand what it takes to do what he does. He is meticulous and I feel very honored to have been able to watch him behind the scenes all of these years.
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Nicky, what’s it like to work at Jeopardy! with your Father being the host? Is there more pressure on you?
I started working on the show the year it started, in 1984. I can’t explain the special relationship I’ve had with Jeopardy! My life has taken me many different directions over the past 30 years but being back at Jeopardy! for the past five has been an incredible blessing. It’s interesting how we are guided to different places in our lives and I believe I’m there to support and be a blessing to him which makes me really grateful. Especially now.
As far as extra pressure? Sure, of course, but I can handle it. I’m tough like him. LOL. It does feel as if more eyes are on me to do the right thing and very aware when I do the wrong thing (haha) but all in all working on Jeopardy! has been and still is like my second family. The Jeopardy! fam is strong and resilient. I’m lucky to be a part of it.
Matthew, was your Dad happy about the opening of your Oso and Lucille’s restaurants?
Yes, he was. I think the opening of my restaurants sort of brought things full circle because his dad was a chef at a hotel in Canada.
Matthew Trebek’s restaurants in Harlem, NY: Oso, Lucille’s Coffee & Cocktails, Pizza By Lucille’s
Emily, did your Dad have any influence on you wanting to flip houses? Did he help you in any way (he is always fixing something at home, so was he like that when you designed a house)?
I’ve always had an interest in design and flipping a home has always been on my “bucket list”. When I bought the first house, I asked for my Dad’s help because he’s extremely handy and really knows a lot about construction. He worked at the jobsite every single day and taught me so much. It really meant a lot to me how much time he dedicated to the project.
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With or without a mustache?
Without!
—Emily Trebek
With a mustache.
—Matthew Trebek
With. Reminds me of childhood.
—Nicky Trebek
What personality trait have you seen shine through over the years that you admire in your Father?
Matthew:
His persistence when it comes to solving challenges…Never give up!
Emily:
His determination… when he has his mind set on something, nothing will change it!
Nicky:
His generosity to everyone and his humility about it. I personally experienced him writing hundreds of thousands of thank you notes while he battled for his life. It’s truly astounding. I honestly can’t even put it into words.
Happy Father’s Day!
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Jean is a Professional Religious Science Practitioner, Reiki Master and Sound Healer. She grew up on Long Island, NY, and now lives in Los Angeles. She has two wonderful adult children, Matthew and Emily, with her beloved late husband, Alex. Jean enjoys taking long walks, watching movies, and traveling. She is very grateful for her family, friends, Luna (the dog) and good coffee.
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This is such a sweet piece to read! Your kids are adorable, loving, kind, gentle and amazing. Thank you for sharing such wonderful memories with us all. I loved hearing their different takes on everything. Your questions were so great Jean! Xoxo ????????????
Thanks, Natalie…
Patti Ring did most of the work on creating this article…I collected the information and passed it on…I’m so glad you’re part of the insidewink team…so much Love to and for you.
Our family already loved Alex. After reading the article, we love him even more! What a wonderful human being.
Thank you for putting together such a nice post.
I have always loved Alex Trebek. I am hoping my dream of taking a photo with Alex on the Jeopardy stage can still be a reality.
Nice family seems very closely entwined. With so much fun on Jeopardy with Alex, I can just imagine the fun you all have at home.
Love you!!!!
Dear Rose Marie,
Thanks for your comment..and for visiting this website.
Hope all is going well for you.
Take Care,
Jean
Hi Doug,
Thanks for taking the time to visit insidewink, and your kind words. All the best,
Jean
I really enjoyed the article. It was obvious how much they love and respect their Dad. It was nice to see another side of someone who comes into my home most nights.
Thanks for your comment, Ron….Happy you found your way to insidewink.com! All the best to you and yours.
I originally started watching Jeopardy because I liked the game. But I actually think I like the show because of how nice Alex is. Would love to shake his hand.
Dear Timothy,
You’re right, Alex is a really good guy.
Thanks for checking out insidewink…hope you’ll stop by again.
All the best.
Jean
Mrs Jeanie Trebek
I was your husband’s 2nd biggest fan
You were his first . I’m sure
I am sorry to hear of his passing.
I’m grieving with you as is the world. I read his book and cried for the genius that is no more.
Rest in peace Alex
Jean, what a touching and beautiful article. It’s also such a great father’s day gift! We really do have such magical feelings, memories and experiences with our families. Be well.
Thanks, Megan.
Your comment touches my heart.
Hoping all is well with you and your loved ones.
Take Care!
Thank you for this wonderful article. To hear such great words from his wife and his children is heartwarming. Alex is very much loved and has given so much enjoyment to so many people. Happy Father’s Day to you Alex!!
Hi Dorothy,
Thanks for your sweet response to my article…and for your time to check out insidewink.
Many Blessings.
Jean
Really beautiful! You’ve inspired me to put something together for our Dad.
Nicky and I began our friendship in Washington sharing about our Dads. So much in common. ????
Thank you , Jean and all the Trebek children. Nicky, Matthew and Emily remind me of Jean’s Grace, giving of themselves. Thank you for sharing your father with the world on Jeopardy but also on an intimate level through this interview. You are truly and amazing family, with amazing parents. Wishing you all a Fabulous Father’s Day!
Hi Jeanne…Thank you for your sweet comment!
Sending you and your family all my love.
Be well, dear friend.
No surprise…what an extraordinary family! Have a great Fathers Day!
Penny!!!
Thinking of you with my most kindest thoughts.
Love always!
Oh My I remember being at your house helping a friend of yours with a computer. Attempting to install some software that was taking forever, I suddenly unconsciously started humming the Jeopardy theme song. You were standing in the kitchen and laughed. I was mortified and so happy Alex hadn’t walked in the room. Hahaha silly how somethings just happen at the strangest times. xox
Hi Suz,
I absolutely remember that day….you crack me up! You were such a big help to my friend that day…a real blessing! Miss seeing you…you’re in my heart always.
What a wonderful piece to read and a perfect Father’s Day gift! I love hearing about Alex from the perspective of the kids. Thank you for sharing this Jean!
Hi Sara,
Thanks for your comment, and welcome to insidewink 😉
May you feel blessed by Life.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful info. I can never forget when we were at a jeopardy show and my son Joachim asked Alex for a photo and he could not say no to him. He said he hasn’t taken a photo with people other than the contestants. Everyone knew he was a special needs child. My son thanked me and said Mom you made my dream come true. After the show the crew wanted to see who was that kid including Sarah Jimmy and Kelly. Even Johnny came to say hi to him. I have the photos signed by Alex and the clue crew hanging On the wall in his bedroom. What an honor. He never misses a show. Blessings to all of you. Praying for his health more so now.
Dear Marie,
What a wonderful experience for your son to have had at the studio…the entire Jeopardy crew is really awesome!
I hope you and your family are well, and thanks for checking out insidewink.
Bountiful Blessings,
Jean
I loved reading this. Thank you for sharing.❤️ What a priceless gift! I can only imagine how much Alex loves this and will always treasure it. Jean, you are such a beautiful writer, and gentle spirit. I am thankful to have had the chance to travel with you and Alex over the years and to know the man behind the icon. Amazing to witness Matthew and Emily grow-up with such grace – wow, time flies! I loved the chance to work with Nicky. What a genuine heart and rockin’ soul! Happy Father’s Day to Alex! With so much love and positive energy always…
Hi Kelly,
Thanks for your lovely comment, and for checking out the website. I have such beautiful memories of us traveling together…you sharing your hair conditioner with me, LOL…and moreover, you being so professional and attentive to everyone! Many blessings to you and all you hold dear…Thank you for your loving heart. XOXOXO
What immense joy I got from reading this beautiful piece – such a tribute to Alex and the impact he has had on his family. May he be blessed with many more years of happiness with his amazing family. . . so much love!
Dear Pamela,
Thank you for your thoughtful comment..
Many Blessing to you and your family as well.
Be well. With Love.
Dear Pamela,
Thanks for your sweet comment..
Many Blessing to you and your family as well.
Be well. With Love.
Loved to hear the children’s comments on the questions. I lost my husband 7 yrs ago after a year long battle with stage 4 pancreatic cancer. It’s become easier and now we have so many fond memories and can laugh at the funny ones. Blessings to your wonderful family and praying for continues strength for your husband.
Dear Kathy,
Thanks for your kind email…I’m glad you have wonderful memories of your husband that bring you joy.
Blessings of Health and Peace to you and your loved ones.
Jean
Alex is consistently in my family’s prayers, and I’m very excited to read his book! We also enjoy watching him on Classic Concentration late at night on Buzzr! Hope he is doing okay during the pandemic.
Thanks, Ben.
Your prayers are appreciated!
Alex is doing well, and I hope the same for you and your family.
Thanks for checking out insidewink.
Jean
Thank you for the glimpse of your husband through the eyes of his children! I have respected him as I’ve watched him on television for most of my life. The older I get the more obvious it is what a special person he is on and off screen! My constant prayers are with you all as you walk the difficult road cancer can be. As a nurse, I see it all too often! I am a nurse because of walking that road with my own parents! Thank you, again and please hug one another for me!
Thanks, Tina…
I appreciate your lovely comments about Alex…and I will give him a hug.
Hope all is well with you and your family.
Many Blessings,
Jean
Thank you so much for sharing! This was really heart-warming to read, especially as I personally look up to Alex a lot and admire him. Thank you for taking the time to make this and I wish you all well.
Thanks, Rachael…
I’m glad you liked the post. Thank you for taking the time to visit insidewink…I hope you come back often.
Many Blessings,
Jean
I’ve enjoyed Jeopardy for years. How wonderful to read about Alex and your family from such a personal and loving place. Our prayers are with Alex every day. ????
Love from Minnesota!
Hi Karen,
Thank you for your prayers….and for visiting this website.
Be well!
Jean
This is a gift they will treasure-it reminds me of the book A Father’s Legacy, where provocative questions are asked of Dad and he writes in the answers so that his children see a side of him that they would not otherwise (what was your fist date like? what games did you play as a child? etc.). I wish I would have known the answers to these questions of my own father.
Dear Marliee,
Thanks for your comment… I do know of the book you’re referring to.
The insidewink team thought it would be nice for Alex to create something that would shed a little light on his role as a Dad, and to reveal a bit of that our readers. Alex was touched and pleased at the article.
Hope all is well with you.
Peace,
Jean
Dear Jean & Alex, This field of sunshine and flowers in the Guidepost this month, was what I saw while during an extended surgery, I died momentarily. I read your story in Guideposts ~ you, Jean and Alex are amazingly beautiful people. His Christianity shines through him at all turns on his TV show. I get to see it often. Jean, I too, am a full time caregiver (24-7) ~ my husband (90) has Alzheimer’s. Most weeks our daughter comes by Thursday (her afternoon off) afternoons to bring groceries or to sit with her dad and I get out for an hour or so to do my own shopping. She is busy, working two jobs and has a son with Autism. He works three days a week for Goodwill. We are so blessed to have our Loving God to turn to any moment and/or situation. So glad you and Alex are close to God. Please hug Alex for me and thank him for his smile and big heart. My prayers are with y’all. glh
Dear Gail,
Your email touched my heart…thank you for taking the time to write me, and for your well wishes. Sending my kindest thoughts to you and your family.
Jean
Dear Jean,
I absolutely loved reading this post. I lost my mother to stage IV colon cancer back in 2012 and it is memories like these that your children speak of that I hope will sustain you and your family during this difficult time. I wanted to take a moment to tell you how special your husband was to our family. We have watched him every evening at 7:30pm since I was a child and I could always count on his voice filling up our kitchen as we cooked, laughed, and ate. His show was a symbol of special times with my family. It just won’t be the same without him and we will forever miss his irreplaceable presence in our home. He fought the good fight and we hope he can now rest easy in Heaven knowing he left a profound impact on so many people’s lives. The world is a better place for having had him in it. Keeping you in our prayers!!
Dear Jean, I really enjoyed reading this .. Of course today your family lost the most wonderful man there is.. God my heart is so broken right now it hurts. I used to watch Jeopardy with my grandma. And continued to watch it when I could after she passed… May Alex fly High with the angels ???? R. I. P
This is beautiful. I’ve watched him as host of Jeopardy since it started. I used to watch with my grandmother. Alex’s voice and demeanor was always calming. I now have two sons who are teens and one used to only take an afternoon nap if Jeopardy! was on in the background when we laid him down. Learning more about his family made me smile. I am praying for your family during this time of great loss. Thanks for sharing him with us for so long.
I send my deepest sympathy for your loss of your husband and father t
You will meet again ..believe in jesus christ have faith ..life isn’t over when it’s over on earth ..he is there with you . In his spirit ..he will come to you not in presence of his body but his soul …he is with the Lord and his mother and father now ….God bless you Alex you will be truely be missed …till then …our friend ..
What a beautiful article just wanted to comment on how remarkable and fortunate Alex‘s life was having such wonderful people around him, it’s comforting to know such a great man had such a great life, with people who loved him dearly
I had not watch Jeopardy in a long till today the very
last time I saw it Alex was the host it wasn’t the same I’m use to his beautiful strong voice he was a great host may he Rest In Peace and he has a beautiful wife and family I love his love story till the end it was beautiful God bless the Trebek family
Yes, Cynthia… Thank you so much. Alex is greatly missed.
Dear Jean
Thanks to you and the kids for all the wonderful, down to earth loving comments about their Dad..
Watching Alex every night for many years, one could feel what a genuine human being he was…the respect for his job, the players and his audience. Nothing fake about him… he was someone, maybe one of the very few that the whole world loved and admired.
He is missed every day…I am now reading his book and learning more about him
Maggy Murray